Oh hello, again

I've been a naughty blogger. I've not posted on here in months! Believe me when I say I've thought about it tons, I've just not gotten around to it.

This blog was originally created for one of my classes in the Spring '13 semester. It was used as a 4 week project, but in that time I thought to myself that it would be lovely to keep it updated and carry on with it. However there proves to be a tiny problem. It's themed off my little [not] nieces and nephews and I live far away in a land that is Pennsylvania, so I'm never around to see my little ones.

I came home for semester break though, last night, and I've already seen my main girls twice, so I thought I'd try to keep this going on for a bit while I'm home. I get a full month this year, so hopefully there will be plenty of posts in that time.

ROBERT'S WALKING

Well hello readers! I wanted to update you on Robert, he's almost 11mo old & he's walking!!! It's so exciting & nerve racking to watch, but it makes you so happy after seeing it. So, in honor of him, here's a link to a video so you can watch Robert walk!

Enjoy!

Kids can be amazing sometimes

I was watching Ellen the other day & she had a 5 year old musical prodigy on who not only played piano but also spoke fluently both English & Mandarin. Ellen is pretty known for bringing talented, bubbly children on her show (we all know Sophia Grace & Rosie) so seeing a young child with talent shouldn't be too much of a surprise, right? 

I don't know what it is but every time I see a child with any ability beyond picking their nose, I'm amazed! Sure you hear stories like Justin Bieber playing the drums at 2 & you see kids on tv all the time, but to actually see a child right in front of you, playing an instrument, singing soulfully, or dancing better than a professional is so incredible. 

While the talent I see in the kids around me (all of my [not] nieces & nephews) may not be Ellen Show worthy, I have some pretty amazing kids in my life. Brianna is learning to sing (& her daddy's making sure she's in tune), Mady is dancing & learning songs too, & little 10 month old Robert Davis can keep a beat better than a lot of adults I know. 

All of this is basically to say that I am really blesses & amazed at the talent o the children around me.

Happy Memorial Day

Memorial Day is a time when families get together. Whether a military family or not, everyone across America takes time to draw their loved ones near & enjoy the day together. A popular American tradition is the Memorial Day cookout. My family, like many others, indulged on this tradition yesterday. We had everyone over and my day quickly became full of whiny children, watermelon, bar-be-que chicken, tee-ball, sunshine, smiles, catch, & corn on the cob! 

This is happening right now, and I am so so happy.

I got home from my Sophomore year of college yesterday. After a 6 & 1/2 hour long drive, I quickly said hello to my family, unpacked the car, & found my way to my bed. About an hour or two later I heard little footsteps, I opened my eyes and there they were. Brianna & Mady were at the end of my bed, smiling from ear to ear, so excited to see me.

They really missed me a lot, & all night they kept telling me that they loved me, that they were "Callie's girls", and that they missed me "too much". They're the sweetest. 

I don't understand how they like me so much, but they do, & as much as they may drive me crazy some days, I love them so much & being around them makes me very happy. 

Stay tuned...

Although this blog was started for one of my classes this past semester, I'm not shutting it down. This summer, I'm going to be seeing these kids a lot, & I want to share with everyone how much I learn from them.

Being Involved

I feel like it's very important to be involved in a child's life whether you hold a position as a parent, grandparent, [not]aunt, or neighbor, if there is a child or children in your life, it's dire that you show up and be a role model for them. The following articles display reasons why you should be involved in a child's life, the benefits for the child, and ways in which you can: enjoy!

University of Florida: Being Involved with Your School-Age Child
The Importance of Being Involved in Your Child's Life
Texas A&M: 20 Reasons Why Your Child Needs You to Be an Active Father
6 Steps to Being a Good Role Model for a Child
Positive Role Models

The Power in Sports

Within the past few years my cousins have become very close to my parents (their aunt & uncle) and therefore are at my house..often (to say the least). My cousin, Brandi, has two sons, Jayveon (age 7) and Jordan (age 4). I have a very hard time relating to them, especially Jayveon.
He's at the "learning to become defiant" age (7) where he doesn't want to listen to any one, especially not some girl he barely knows that shows up once every few months because she's away getting an education. He drives me crazy. Daily. And he does not relent. Ever. I'm constantly trying to find ways that I can keep him quiet or busy and just, frankly, out of my hair. I know, I'm not the best human being, okay? I get it. You'll have to excuse me.
Anyway, I have figured out how to connect with him. Over spring break, when I was home, I was trying to catch the MLB spring training games. I just wanted to sit on the couch and actually watch my teams play. Low and behold, Jayveon comes waltzing through the door. I gave a dramatic sigh to express my displeasure with now having to take care of a child that doesn't like the sight of me. He came into the den where I was (all sassy like), and right before he opened his mouth to begin trying to boss me around, he noticed the baseball games on TV and excitedly asked, "are you watching this?" I said yes, of course, and he was quiet. Now none of you know this boy, but for him to be quiet is something so incredible. He slowly walked backwards to sit with me on the couch and watch the games. We watched the spring training games, and then watched some of the NCAA March Madness games, for hours. For the rest of the week, we watched games, played catch in the backyard, and even got a small game going. It was the first time I've ever been able to connect with the child and it was really, just so exciting.
The reason I bring this up is because I'm going home in three days. I'm going to have to get used to seeing this kid every day. This is to remind myself that I can get along with the child. This is also to encourage anyone out there having trouble relating to a child (or peer/elder) that there is always something for you to relate on, whether that be sports or some hobby, there is always something that will break the barrier.

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me...

I'm notorious for letting kids take my phone and play games, during church, at restaurants, wherever really. I had become so accustomed to it, that now I stopped really watching them while they would play on it. Well, sometimes you can't trust a two year old as much as you originally thought. Above is a screenshot from my phone I took after letting Mady play games on my phone. I had her all set up to play the game Canon Cat, but because of her attention span and ability to press a button, the sneaky youngin' crept into my messaging app and decided to send what you see above. Since this incident I have found myself guiding little fingers across the screen of my iPhone. But who can blame me, really? 

Call me cruel, but one of the best parts about being an aunt (or in my case a [not]aunt) is getting to mess with the kids but not having to deal with the consequences. Not that every time you play around with the kids you want them to end up crying but in the case that you do, well...they go home with Mommy & Daddy. You don't have to take care of them full time, and you surely don't have to deal with what these parents dealt with:

Note that these gifts are from Uncle Tim, who is conveniently not around.

Introductions!

There are multiple children in my life that I am an aunt-like figure to, but who are these mysterious kids I consider my own?

Meet Tia Franks.
I've known Tia for 7 years now, she was adopted by a couple of my parents' best friends, Burt and Lisa Franks, when she was just under a year old. I've watched this girl grow up right in front of my eyes, and I have to say, it is the weirdest thing to watch.  I now know how the older people in my life feel about me. 

Meet Emily (7) and Ethan (4) (and Tia again)!
I've known Emily and Ethan (and their family) since my dad got his pastoring job back home in Virginia. They have attended the church for a while and over the years I have become best friends with these two. In fact, Ethan and I have actually made multiple lists as to why we are best friends!

Next up is Kaylynn (4)!
Kaylynn is the daughter of my former foster brother, Eric. Through the years,  Eric has kept in touch with my family and even calls my parents Mom and Dad. When Kaylynn was born there was no hesitation, and although there is no legitimate blood relation, I fully consider her my niece. Eric and Alison also have a son, Kamryn, that I consider to be my nephew (I just don't have any photos of him)!

Meet Brianna (4) and Mady (3).
These two are technically my cousins, but they are little so I just consider them to be my nieces, really. I spend most of my time with them fixing their hair so it looks like mine for the day, watching Disney movies,  and dancing around the living room to whatever music we can find to play.

Malachi (5), Alexia (3), and Zoe (3)!
These three are the children of my youth pastor and his wife. Over the past two or two and a half years, I've been able to connect with their family and even begin to consider them my own.

Last, but definitely not least is the youngest one of the bunch, Robert Davis (8 mo.)!
Robert Davis is the son of my best friend's older sister. I've known this family literally all of my life, and this precious little thing is the newest edition. Though he is the youngest of my pretend nieces and nephews, he is the one that originally gave me the title of [Not]Aunt. One could say he started it all. 

Well, I think that's everyone! I'm not sure why, but these kids have been placed in my life and whether I like it or not, I am influencing them every time I interact with the; I'm not perfect and I have many personality flaws they needn't pick up on. Every moment spent with them I am teaching them, but more than that, they are teaching me. 

Welcome!

Down South, it is common to have quite the extended family, and because of this trend I consider myself to be an aunt to roughly nine children even though my brothers have no kids yet. With this, I want to document my adventures caring for these kids and sowing seeds into their lives as if they were my own nieces and nephews.